"Playa"

This is to all those dudes out there who claim this title, I hate to have to be the one to break it down to you all seeing that I am a woman and I have to school some of you sucka ass dudes.

You say that you handle your business, you do what you need to do to make sure your home is taken care of. Well let me tell you, I have met many of you all whether it be in passing, observance or just a simple conversation and I must say that some of you dudes are truly undignified with what you do. You say oh I keep it real, I am that "ride or die" and then when it comes to truly being yourself you clam up. You are far from being able to handle being under pressure if you do something such as cheating, hell now and days some woman are accepting of you dealing with others as long as she know she that bottom bitch and you keep it 100 with her but y'all still don't know the meaning of that.

You tell your chick half the story cause you say "Ma I am trying to spare your feeling" WTF get that shit outta here we built alot stronger emotionally to deal with the bullshit but you all still seem to want to run that wack ass line. Try being a real "MAN" and come to reality and see what it do. Make it happen allow her to make up her own mind who are you to make her mind up for her. Fellas I am pretty sure when you all 1st meet a lady she say "if you not ready for a relationship just tell me and we can be cool" and you of course lie and say "No baby I want to be with you" and meanwhile do how many others on the side when all long she had already told you that as long as she knew she the bottom chick that its cool just be honest. There is nothing worse then having to hear from others what your man has been doing knowing that he had the chance to tell you since you both handle your biz and make it back home to one another.

I can definitely tell you that if you straight up honest with a chick you will get better results then trying to be sneaky cuz in the long run trust me you gonna wish you had her. You know once she gone she gone forever. A woman can only take but so much before she ready to call it quits, so speaking from experience trust me when I tell you fellas its easier to lie than it is to tell the truth but the outcome of the truth will gain you much more respect and I would rather have respect than nothing at all. My motto is we start off as friends and as friends you should not lie so if you can lie to me just as being my friend what would make me want you as my man I mean honestly?

So when you fellas decide to use the word "playa" remember you truly aren't one if you running around telling lies and getting caught every time you turn around cause a true "PLAYA" keeps it 100 so there is no reason to get caught cause everyone knows the deal....