Cherish Life

We all know that life throws us curve balls but we have to figure out away to straighten them out. You have to realize that its not the end of the world just because you may not be able to buy those Gucci glasses or those Prada shoes. We need to be grateful that we have our health, food, shelter,clothing good sense of knowledge. So the next time you say why think of the other children who may be in the same country or even out of the country who don't have anything, no food, no shelter, no doctor, no medicine, may not live to see another day another minute for that matter.

We should reflect on who we are where we are and what we have and be humble and thankful for life's pleasures. Stop dwelling on the "what ifs" and start focusing on the here and now. You need to make a plan for yourself and know that you and only you can make that happen. We always want to blame others for our mistakes in life and fault others for things not going the way they should when in reality you are your own worse obstacle.

I am going to tell you a little bit about me. I grew up in a small town for 28 years, I worked a 9-5 for 9 years and decided one day that truly wanted to get into adult films and everybody told me that I was crazy and that I wouldn't make it. Making it in porn was not my goal moving out of that small town was my ultimate goal and never to look back. Well I got into the adult film industry in 2007 and I traveled back and forth from California to Pennsylvania up until May 2008. I then took a little break to reflect on what I had done and made up my mind that I truly wanted to get into the industry and make it work to my advantage so I moved to California in January 2009. I made it happen on my own. The key to this blog is that I never gave up no matter what was thrown in my way. I made it and yes it was hard but when you truly want something you will make it happen for yourself..."NEVER GIVE UP'.

We have to cherish our lives and value what we have accomplished. Have faith and determination and you will go far. We have to stop worrying about what others have, what they are driving or what kind of house they living in. Its nice to look but don't dwell as much energy as you put into "hating" you could have the same thing or even better if you put all that energy into making it happen for yourself.


Focus on YOU because if you don't trust no one else will....