Well this blog is going to be a little different than most as it will have advice for my ladies on how to play your position in your relationship, men how to treat your woman, life's struggles and just general life situations oh yeah and of course about the Adult Film Industry.
I want you all to feel welcome to provide any feedback or constructive criticism as it will all be welcome. Please know that this will be for my 18 and older readers so if you are under age please remove yourself from this blog as I would hate to corrupt you at such an early age(lol).
Play Your Position
I have had many friends come to me over the years and I go to them of course but since I have been single for the last 5 years they have been more coming to me. I have been single for 5 years by choice so please keep those smart ass comments to yourself...lmao...anyway getting to the topic at hand I have been giving a lot of advice and it has turned out to actually work out really well, so I wanted to write about it.
I know that we all go through life’s trials and tribulations through life and ladies we all know that when it comes to matters of the heart we are all in and have no sight of what is wrong. We have to start waking up and realizing that our men also have feelings and that we cannot play their game we as woman need to be strong and realize when it’s time to say "goodbye" we know that we want to hold onto him for all the wrong reasons we give ourselves so many excuses as to why we can't leave him; we don't want to see him with anyone else, he said that he loves me forever,
we have kids together, we have too much time, I don't want to deal with anyone else and we know there are many more. We need to wake up and realize that we are QUEENS if we don't realize that or treat ourselves as such who will. A man is going to treat you the way you treat yourself. We have to be classy about our life styles we have to remember that what we do as profession does not make you who you are. How you carry yourself is what makes you the
woman you are. You have to provide yourself with that sense of confidence and self worthiness. Make yourself happy someone can bring you happiness but if you are not happy with yourself then you have to know that no one can make you happy.
Acknowledge your role and play it well. Don't let other see your misery as you know people feed off that. Never ever blast over the internet that you are having problems with your dude that is so childish truly:)....You have to know that what happens in your house stays in your house. Why would you want people to know your relationship is failing you never know who is reading it could be the one that wants what you have.
Ladies I have been hearing a lot that you don't give your man head...whoa that is a definite NO NO NO you just telling him right off its okay to cheat because I am just saying you really need to handle your business when it comes to pleasing your man. You know that saying " What you don't do another woman will" and then you want to go and complain why he isn’t home? why did he cheat? well there goes your answer. If you don't know how and to embarrass to say so watch porn alone or ask a good friend. If you’re not embarrassed then watch porn with your man
or ask him how he likes it don't be scared that's the way you are going to learn what to do. Keep your confidence levels up know that you are the best and trust it will get better.
I have been hearing that ladies cannot cook.....WOW what is up with that one. There are too many cooking shows out for you not to learn. The internet is a world of information. Stop being lazy and get your asses in the kitchen and cook. Spice it up a little do it with no clothes on sometimes or in some sexy lingerie have fun with it you will enjoy it a lot more. I know some of you are saying we have kids we do it on a night when you have a sitter.
Ladies the fellas don't have to always be the romantic one take the initiative and show him your romantic side. Light some candles run him some bath water and put rose petals through the water and all over the bedroom or wherever you decide to make love. You will be surprise how many men truly like that, you will give him ideas and intrigue his interest and want him to start thinking of things to do.
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I ran across this posted to some one's blog on MySpace, and though it's crude it is pretty much on point:
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Sunday, March 02, 2008
Porn has taught me soooo much racism.
So I have viewed alot of (heterosexual well and some girl on girl) porn. Porn is fascinating to me mostly because u get to see hoes you would have sex with but who r nasty and untrustworthy get poked without any risk of actually doing it. BUT its secondly amazing to me because it reinforces so many bizarre stereotypes and stigmas we all take for granted when viewing it or perhaps it exposes different racist fetishist fantasies and thoughts lying within all of our minds. Ya dig? Id like to read all of your opinions on this.
BLACK GUYS =Huge cock beasts, ungraceful, forceful gangbanging ex cons.
WHITE GIRLS= pristine white painty virgins all secretly fiending to be ravaged by 4 black dudes @ once/ (isnt it weird how once u fuck a black dude in porn u start getting paid less)/ dick sucking lampreys hyper effiminate
LATINAS=Hyper sexualized adultresses theres alot of weird concept porn about the white dude finally fuckin the spanish girl behind her overjealous but unsatisfying husbands back. Loud. mad "aye papi" "mojado" screaming. just animals of fuck.
ASIAN GIRLS= lighter mainland asians demure quiet trained to be cum upon. will take or do anything to please her master
(WHITEDUDES R REALLY INTO THIS!)/Darker southeast asian girls, slightly more aggressive but eventually get made to shut up and obey.
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